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My Marriage Advice (unpacked)

Updated: Oct 3, 2019

My last post I offered my perspective on the key attributes to have and sustain a happy marriage. I also stated that I am by no means a marriage expert. In this post I will expand on my "novice" views by giving more details on my titled "dos", "don'ts" and "truths".

As a refresh, my so called "3 x 2" are:

2 x Don'ts

- Don't cheat (physically or emotionally)

- Don't mask your reality from your spouse

2 x Dos

- Have an attitude of commitment (and the actions should follow)

- Invest in communication (talking and listening)

2 x Truths

- Only the two in the marriage know the truth of the relationship

- Marriages evolve, individually and collectively, live in that truth