My last post I offered my perspective on the key attributes to have and sustain a happy marriage. I also stated that I am by no means a marriage expert. In this post I will expand on my "novice" views by giving more details on my titled "dos", "don'ts" and "truths".
As a refresh, my so called "3 x 2" are:
2 x Don'ts
- Don't cheat (physically or emotionally)
- Don't mask your reality from your spouse
2 x Dos
- Have an attitude of commitment (and the actions should follow)
- Invest in communication (talking and listening)
2 x Truths
- Only the two in the marriage know the truth of the relationship
- Marriages evolve, individually and collectively, live in that truth